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(Although most everyone would mutually agree to this being true for them, I have known people who make the claim while simultaneously avoiding intimate exchanges...I shall prove tiresome for anyone who eschews intimacy. ;) I'm still a bit unclear on the allure of bars or extensive partying and I do prefer to take things slowly; believing to truly connect you need to risk becoming vulnerable and to become vulnerable, you need to trust and trust takes TIME. (I know we lesbians can often forget this is an option...chuckle.) I want to get to know you from the inside out; to find out what makes you tick, are you a real person and willing to cherish and be kind to the vulnerability inside your self, others and the world?? I think taking some time to get to know someone mentally and emotionally before sexually creates a more intense and meaningful relationship. (We're all a work in progress...diamonds in the rough...'only we'll find these treasures buried deep within each other.) It's taken me years to suddenly wise up and realize that time actually can be a longing heart's "friend". I'd like to meet someone who's as interested in learning about all the many facets of me, as I am interested in learning about theirs...'valuing this time and space for each of us to figure out one another while appreciating the experience of discovering each other, layer by layer...that is after all, half of the fun!! (I think a relationship, like life, is meant to be relished, savoured...not a destination, but a journey. I'm interested in someone who's willing to explore life together, each other and to find and enjoy the beauty within it...someone who can introduce me to their world and all of the beauty they see.) I tend to put myself into everything full steam. . .(especially relationships of all types.) My heart is big and on my sleeve; I love with all of my being and give from within. I am kind and fiercely loyal and will look after those who are in my circle. 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I am a real person and I am simply looking for a real friendship/relationship. I am not looking for a superficial relationship by any means, but one that possibly can truly last the test of time and any of the hurdles that would be encountered. (If you couldn't already tell, I am not looking for casual sex or multiple person sex or sneaking around sex or any sex of any kind or in between. Please, just don't bother wasting your time.) I am a "relationship girl" (and of course, friendship is always accepted; just be clear with your boundaries.) Overall, I'm normally low-key and typiy won't care where we eat or what movie we see, BUT I will care what's playing in the car on the way to get there...LOL!! With all that said, I'm really not built for casual encounters (so you won't find me on "Alice's Chart"...LOL!), however I do make a great date. Honestly, what I'd really like is someone who's going to be real...I'm just tired of the games, lesbian drama...'been there, done that ~ turnin' the page... I know there someone out there who feels like I do and I know your searching too! I set up a free profile to house all my info and pics at dating4lesbian.com. I know what your thinking! Get your head out of the gutter!! (lol) I just wanted a safer place to put my stuff. Okay, so maybe it's not a safety deposit box but it "feels" a little more ........ protected.
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